The place is 10 minutes walk from Dengfeng bus station, to where you arrive from Zhengzhou and from where you can get to Shaolin. The host sent us the location in (SENSITIVE CONTENTS HIDDEN), so it wasn't difficult to find the place. You can also ask him for a house number. There's a house number and it's convenient to know it, but in China they don't usually use it for some reason. The host isn't good in English but was friendly and helpful. Gave us corn and apples. The room is clean, beds are really nice and where's a normal toilet in a bathroom, not a hole in a floor. I recommend this!
The house is in Dengfeng county at foot of Mount Song. Shaolin Temple is 8 km(10 min ride)away. Several restaurants are right opposite the house. 5min walk to grocery store & bus stop. BEST thing: a beautiful private GARDEN despite 2 parks around.